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Steve Aoki 4th of July Weekend Party
Steven Aokihas collaborated with artists such as will.i.am, Afrojack, LMFAO, Linkin Park, Iggy Azalea, Lil Jon, blink-182, Taking Back Sunday, Laidback Luke, BTS, Monsta X, Louis Tomlinson, Backstreet Boys, Rise Against, Vini Vici, Lauren Jauregui, and Fall Out Boy and is known for his remixes of artists such as Kid Cudi.
Aoki has released several Billboard-charting studio albums as well, notably Wonderland, which was nominated for Grammy Award for Best Dance/Electronica Album in 2013.
He is the founder of the Steve Aoki Charitable Fund, which raises money for global humanitarian relief organizations.
In 2019, Aoki published a memoir, Blue: The Color of Noise
A Rum So Good It Could Unify Congress? Big Papi’s Ozama Rum Hits D.C. With Dominican Pride and Premium Flavor
What do a Hall-of-Fame baseball legend, the Ozama River in the Dominican Republic, and your next favorite rum have in common? According to David “Big Papi” Ortiz, the answer is Ozama Rum—a brand-new ultra-premium Dominican spirit that’s already making waves from Dupont Circle to Georgetown’s waterfront bars.
Ortiz, the beloved former Red Sox slugger, has officially entered the world of high-end spirits. And no, this isn’t just another celebrity endorsement. This is a passion project with deep cultural roots, a social mission, and a flavor profile that’s already catching the attention of D.C.’s discerning drinkers and mixologists alike.
“To me, Ozama isn’t just about rum, it’s about identity, pride, and progress,” Ortiz said. “I wanted to build something that celebrates the energy and soul of my people and shows the world what we’re made of. It’s always been important for me to do things the right way, which is why this labor of love has been one of the most rewarding projects of my career. I can’t wait for people to try it! They say that perfection doesn’t exist, but you can get close to it.”
Made in the Dominican Republic. Designed for D.C. Tastemakers.
Named after the Ozama River—where Ortiz spent his childhood swimming, fishing, and crabbing—Ozama Rum is a 100% Dominican-made product, bearing the official Ron Dominicano designation. From sugarcane fields to barrel aging and bottling, every drop is crafted on the island, offering a terroir-driven taste experience rooted in authenticity.
For a city like Washington, where policy powerhouses and cultural tastemakers collide, Ozama hits a sweet spot. It’s a spirit with heritage, depth, and—let’s be honest—genuine cool factor.
Ozama debuts in three expressions:
Ozama Blanco: Aged and platinum-clear, with bright citrus notes and a snap of white pepper. It’s the perfect base for elevated daiquiris at The Royal in Shaw or a late summer mojito at Rose’s Luxury.
Ozama Añejo: Copper-hued and complex, this expression builds on caramel, chocolate, and spice—ideal for sipping neat in a Logan Circle speakeasy or pairing with dessert in Old Town Alexandria.
Ozama Gran Añejo: The flagship sipper. Silky with notes of dates, raisins, vanilla, and fine wood. A slow, luxurious pour meant for top shelves in Georgetown or a fireside moment in Annapolis.
With suggested prices ranging from $25 to $40 per 700ml bottle, Ozama Rum offers rare quality at an accessible entry point. It’s luxury with heart—and it’s coming for D.C.’s cocktail culture.
A Rum with a Mission (and Momentum)
What sets Ozama apart—besides its flavor—is its purpose. Ortiz and his team, including Abbott Wolfe, CEO of Drink2Success, baked philanthropy into the business model from day one.
“From day one, David had a clear vision to create an ultra-premium rum that feels authentic, vibrant, and undeniably Dominican—it was important to him to spotlight the Dominican Republic and at the same time give back to the community that raised him,” Wolfe said.
Two percent of all profits from Ozama will be donated to cleanup efforts along the Ozama River and to support local communities in the Dominican Republic. In a city where social responsibility carries weight (just ask anyone on Capitol Hill), Ozama’s mission-driven model resonates deeply.
Rum’s Rising—and Washington’s Ready
The global rum market, valued at $11.77 billion in 2022, is projected to grow 5.6% annually through 2030, according to Global View Research. As American consumers shift from mass-market brands toward artisanal, culturally grounded spirits, Ozama Rum is arriving at precisely the right time.
Washington’s cocktail culture—long dominated by bourbon, rye, and gin—is increasingly open to rum, especially when it’s this well-made and story-rich. Early tastings at venues in Penn Quarter and Adams Morgan suggest bartenders are eager to experiment with Ozama in classics like the El Presidente, the Jungle Bird, and yes—even a refined rum-based Old Fashioned.
Where to Find Ozama Rum in D.C.
Ozama Rum is now available online at drinkozama.com and is rolling out in select Northeast markets, including the Washington metro area. Expect to see it appear soon on curated back bars and menus in cocktail-forward destinations like Columbia Room, Serenata, and Maketto. Retail expansion into D.C., Maryland, and Northern Virginia is expected by early summer.
Final Sip: From the DR to the DMV
Ozama Rum isn’t just another bottle. It’s an invitation—to taste, to connect, and to celebrate a Caribbean culture often underrepresented in the premium spirits space. In a city built on narrative, nuance, and legacy, Big Papi’s new venture is finding a natural home.
“They say that perfection doesn’t exist,” Ortiz said. “But you can get close to it.”
And in Washington D.C., where compromise is rare and taste is everything—that’s a pretty strong pitch.
WWE Superstars Are Coming to D.C. Liquor Stores with Seagram Escapes Spiked — Here’s Why Everyone’s Talking About It
From Capitol Hill to Capitol One Arena, wrestling fandom in D.C. runs deep—and now, it’s got a bold new drink to match. WWE has officially stepped into the ready-to-drink ring for the first time ever, and they’re doing it with Seagram’s Escapes Spiked, the flavored malt beverage brand known for pulling no punches when it comes to flavor.
This multi-year partnership marks a historic moment for WWE—its first-ever licensed alcoholic beverage—and it’s already turning heads across the District. Whether you’re a die-hard Attitude Era fan, a loyal member of the WWE Universe, or just someone who loves a cold can with big flavor, this collab is tailor-made for D.C.’s mix of culture, energy, and edge.
The new Seagram’s Escapes Spiked WWE Series is already hitting shelves all over the DMV—from Columbia Heights liquor stores to Northeast corner shops and suburban carry-outs in Prince George’s County. And with summer heating up, this release couldn’t have better timing.
D.C. Wrestling Fans Get the First Pour
Washington, D.C. isn’t just about politics. It’s about passion—and anyone who’s been inside Capital One Arena on a WWE Monday Night Raw knows the city brings the noise. So it makes perfect sense for WWE and Seagram’s Spiked to roll out this fan-first collaboration in a city that knows how to bring the heat, whether it’s a rowdy crowd at Survivor Series or a packed watch party in U Street.
“Seagram’s has a rich history of innovation and a deep commitment to authenticity, making it the ideal partner to go to market with our first-ever licensed ready-to-drink product,” said Grant Norris-Jones, Executive Vice President and Head of Global Partnerships for TKO Group Holdings, WWE’s parent company. “And D.C. fans bring intensity like no other—we’re excited to launch where the passion runs strong.”
Three Flavors That Hit Like a Superkick
The new Seagram’s Escapes Spiked WWE Series isn’t coming in quiet—it’s coming in like Roman Reigns on a title run. The lineup includes three flavor-heavy hitters, each built to satisfy the D.C. palate with serious fruit-forward force:
Rumble Punch™ – A remix of the iconic Jamaican Me Happy, this knockout mix of strawberry, lemon, watermelon, and guava is the perfect sip whether you’re chilling at a rooftop bar in Navy Yard or hosting a viewing party in Shaw.
Pineapple Powerhouse™ – Pineapple, cherry, and lime blend into a bold burst of sweet-and-sour flavor. This one belongs on ice at your next H Street block party or afterwork meetup on K Street.
Slammin’ Blueberry™ – Blueberry and lemon team up for a crisp, refreshing flavor profile that’s as smooth as a well-executed suplex—and perfect for cracking open during a Nationals tailgate or a Capitol Hill cookout.
Each can clocks in at 8% ABV, and they’re now available throughout D.C. and surrounding areas. No mixers. No nonsense. Just bold drinks with serious WWE energy.
Superstars Coming to the DMV
As part of the partnership, Seagram’s Spiked becomes an Official Partner of WWE, meaning you’ll start seeing the brand integrated across WWE Premium Live Events like Money in the Bank® (June 7), SummerSlam®, and Survivor Series®. But that’s not all—WWE Superstars will also be making special appearances at local D.C.-area retailers throughout the year.
That’s right—your local beer distributor or convenience store might just become the site of a surprise meet-and-greet with one of your favorite Superstars. Expect exclusive photo ops, giveaways, and maybe even a few promos cut in the snack aisle.
“Our collaboration with WWE marks an exciting moment for Seagram’s Spiked as we connect with WWE’s global audience—and D.C.’s incredibly passionate and loyal fanbase,” said Jaime Polisoto, brand director for Seagram’s Escapes. “This city knows how to show out, and we can’t wait to bring WWE energy directly to the fans.”
Belt-Worthy Sips for the District
From the Howard Theatre to the Wharf, D.C. is a city that lives big—and this drink is designed to match that pace. Whether you’re pregaming before a show, winding down on your porch in Petworth, or watching a Pay-Per-View with friends in Adams Morgan, Seagram’s Escapes Spiked WWE Series is the drink that’s made for wrestling fans who also know their way around a great party.
Because in D.C., we don’t just watch the main event—we are the main event.
Raise a can. Pop a crowd. And drink like a champion.
DC’s Own Taraji P. Henson Sets Sail with Seven Daughters Moscato and Princess Cruises
She grew up in the Nation’s Capital, earned her stripes at Howard University, and has since become a Hollywood powerhouse. Now, Taraji P. Henson is bringing a taste of her signature charm—and a glass of her delicious Seven Daughters Moscato—to the high seas with Princess Cruises.
That’s right, D.C.—one of our own is leveling up your next vacation. Princess Cruises has officially added Henson’s Seven Daughters Moscato to its exclusive Love Lines Premium Liquors Collection, and it’s already giving first-class flavor with DMV soul.
“Seven Daughters is more than just a bottle of wine; it’s a celebration in a glass,” said Henson, who serves as Strategic Advisor and Creative Collaborator for the brand. “Our Moscato is inviting, refreshing, and perfect for moments of connection which is what makes this partnership with Princess Cruises so amazing. Now we can experience this feeling with people from around the world, whether they’re toasting under the stars or relaxing on the open sea.”
With a lightly sweet profile, tropical fruit notes, and a touch of honeysuckle, Seven Daughters isn’t just a wine—it’s an experience. It’s the kind of drink you sip after a long week on the Hill, during a rooftop evening in Shaw, or while catching a sunset from a cruise deck after boarding in nearby Baltimore.
“Princess Cruises is committed to curating distinctive, high-quality experiences for our guests, and Seven Daughters aligns seamlessly with that vision,” said Sami Kohen, Vice President of Food and Beverage at Princess Cruises. “Taraji’s Moscato reflects a bold yet approachable style that we know our guests will love.”
For Henson, who’s always repped D.C. with pride, this partnership is more than a business move—it’s personal. A Howard Bison turned award-winning actor, Taraji’s journey from Southeast to stardom has always been powered by authenticity, hard work, and a whole lot of heart. And now, she’s bringing that same energy to your wine glass.
Seven Daughters Moscato joins a star-powered lineup in the Love Lines Premium Liquors Collection, which features names like Jason Momoa (Meili Vodka), Matthew and Camila McConaughey (Pantalones Organic Tequila), Blake Lively (Betty Booze), Liev Schreiber (Sláinte Irish Whiskey), Jason Aldean (Melarosa wines), and Kylie Minogue (No Alcohol Sparkling Rosé). But Taraji’s addition hits differently—especially here in the DMV.
Whether you’re relaxing in Rock Creek Park, brunching in Navy Yard, or headed down I-95 for a cruise getaway, this wine is made for real ones who know good taste and good vibes go hand in hand. And with cruises sailing from just up the road in Baltimore, getting on board with Taraji’s Moscato is as easy as booking a weekend away.
This is wine with character. Wine with elegance. Wine with roots. Just like Taraji. Just like D.C.
So go ahead, DMV—raise your glass. One of our own is bringing the flavor to the seas, and she’s making sure every sip feels like home.
Learn more about Princess Cruises and the Love Lines Premium Liquors Collection at www.princess.com.
Washington, D.C. Goes Bold with Knob Creek Single Barrel Select Cask Strength
Knob Creek®, a standout in The Small Batch Bourbon Collection™ and a leader in the American whiskey scene, is raising the bar with the launch of Knob Creek® Single Barrel Select Cask Strength. This exciting new release offers Washington, D.C. whiskey enthusiasts a rare opportunity to select exclusive barrels of uncut, unfiltered Knob Creek® Bourbon and Rye, providing a truly unique, one-of-a-kind single barrel experience.
Bottled at cask strength, without any dilution or filtration, the Single Barrel Select Cask Strength offers a bolder, more concentrated flavor profile. This means whiskey lovers can enjoy an authentic taste that truly captures the craftsmanship Knob Creek® is known for, showcasing the deep, rich flavors that have made this bourbon a favorite among connoisseurs.
Whether you’re on the hunt for a rare addition to your collection or looking to experience Knob Creek® in its most pure form, this new offering delivers an unparalleled taste of the distillery’s signature quality. Keep an eye out for this limited-edition release at select retailers across Washington, D.C.—it’s sure to become a coveted find for any serious whiskey aficionado.
Knob Creek® Single Barrel Select Cask Strength: A Bold and Authentic Expression of Bourbon and Rye
Knob Creek® is pushing the boundaries of bourbon and rye with its Single Barrel Select Cask Strength, delivering a truly unfiltered, uncut whiskey experience. Bottled directly from the barrel with no added water, this release offers Knob Creek fans the same signature bold, full-bodied flavor, now in its purest, most intense form.
With each bottle ranging from approximately 110–130 proof for Bourbon and 100–120 proof for Rye, the Single Barrel Select Cask Strength captures the raw intensity and complexity of each barrel. Whether you’re a bourbon aficionado or a rye enthusiast, each bottle offers a distinctive, full-flavored experience that pays homage to Booker Noe, the visionary founder of Knob Creek®. His commitment to producing authentic, high-quality spirits is fully realized in every sip of this exceptional release.
For those who appreciate bold, high-proof whiskey, this release is a must-try. It’s the perfect expression of Knob Creek’s dedication to quality and authenticity, offering a powerful, unfiltered taste straight from the barrel. If you’re a fan of whiskey that stands out with its richness and intensity, be sure to seek out this limited-edition release—it’s a true gem for Washington, D.C. connoisseurs.
“When my grandfather created Knob Creek,
he set out to make a whiskey that stood out—
bold, robust, and no shortcuts,” Eighth Generation Master Distiller,
Freddie Noe
“With our Single Barrel Select Program, we pay tribute to that legacy by offering fans the chance to experience Knob Creek® in its most authentic form—uncut and unfiltered, creating the most unadulterated single barrel selection in Knob Creek’s® history.”
Knob Creek® Single Barrel Select Cask Strength: A Personalized Whiskey Experience Like No Other
For Washington, D.C. whiskey enthusiasts seeking to deepen their connection with Knob Creek®, the brand is offering an exclusive opportunity to engage with its Single Barrel Select Cask Strength program. This immersive experience allows participants to visit the renowned James B. Beam Distilling Co. in Clermont, KY, for a behind-the-scenes tour where they’ll have the chance to hand-select their own barrel in the historic Warehouse K. The process includes “thieving” whiskey directly from multiple barrels and engaging in a comparative tasting to identify the perfect selection. The day culminates with a curated meal at The Kitchen Table, making it a truly unforgettable adventure into the world of Knob Creek®.
For those who can’t make the trip to Kentucky, Knob Creek® is bringing the experience directly to you. Remote selection sample kits will be available, allowing enthusiasts to enjoy the selection process from the comfort of home, all while exploring the distinctive flavors that make Knob Creek® so special.
Knob Creek® Single Barrel Select Cask Strength will be available at participating retailers nationwide for a suggested retail price of $69.99 for a 750mL bottle.
For those eager to dive even deeper into their whiskey journey, the James B. Beam Distilling Co. also offers the Private Barrel Club. This exclusive program invites visitors to taste through a selection of barrels and handpick their favorites for purchase, offering a deeper connection to the craftsmanship of Knob Creek®.
This is the perfect opportunity for D.C. whiskey lovers to not only discover new expressions of Knob Creek® but also to become part of the distillery’s storied legacy. Whether you’re visiting Kentucky or enjoying the experience from afar, this is your chance to elevate your whiskey collection with a truly personalized tou
Taste of Iceland Festival Kicks Off U.S. Tour in Washington, D.C., March 8-9
Taste of Iceland 2024, organized by Inspired by Iceland, returns to Washington, D.C., Friday, March 8 and Saturday, March 9. The cultural festival celebrates the land of fire and ice with events across the city showcasing the best of Icelandic culture, including food and beverage, music, nature, literature, art and design, wellness, and more.
Taste of Iceland celebrates and shares the traditions and culture of Iceland with the people of North America. In partnership with local businesses and Taste of Iceland’s official partners, featured events will be hosted at Brasserie Beck, Eaton DC, Mind Your Body Oasis, Old School Hardware, Songbyrd, and Wild Days.
Most events are free and open to the public. Event tickets are required, and guests are encouraged to arrive promptly to guarantee entry. Tickets are available on the Taste of Iceland Website. Reservations are required for the prix-fixe Icelandic dinner through the Taste of Iceland Website.
FESTIVAL SCHEDULE
Friday, March 8 – Saturday, March 9
Icelandic Menu at Brasserie Beck: Brian McBride, Partner-Chef at Brasserie Beck, in collaboration with Bjarki Snær Thorsteinsson, Chef on Iceland’s National Culinary Team, will prepare a pop-up menu inspired by Icelandic flavors and ingredients, including seafood, lamb, and skyr. 4:00 PM – 9:45 PM at Brasserie Beck. Reservations for the prix fixe menu are available through the Taste of Iceland Website.
Wheel of Prizes Presented by Icelandair: March 8-9 at various events during the Taste of Iceland festival in Washington, D.C., selected participants will have the opportunity to win various prizes, including a trip for two to Iceland! Click here for more information.
March 8, 5:00 PM at Wild Days before the Cocktail Class with Iceland’s Reyka Vodka
March 9, 3:00 PM at Eaton DC, Beverly Snow before Icelandia Presents: Geology with Helga
March 9, 7:00 PM at Songbyrd, during and after Reykjavik Presents: Iceland Airwaves Off-Venue
Icelandair is also offering special sales on roundtrip flights to Iceland from Washington, D.C. Learn more here.
Friday, March 8
Pizza Time with Flétta and Ýrúrarí: During this family friendly interactive exhibition showcasing Iceland’s commitment to sustainable design, Icelandic design teams Flétta and Ýrúrarí will open a pizza parlor where guests can order freshly felted wool pizza slices made of leftovers from the Icelandic wool industry. Guests can select toppings to customize their order and bring home a wool pizza slice as a one-of-a-kind art piece. Pizza Time was first exhibited at Iceland’s premier global design festival,DesignMarch, in 2023, and was awarded Project of the Year at the Icelandic Design Awards. 4:00 PM at Old School Hardware (next to Ellē). Click here for more information.
Cocktail Class with Iceland’s Reyka Vodka: Join a free cocktail class with Reyka Vodka where brand ambassador and mixologist, Jeff Naples, will shake up some tasty Iceland-inspired cocktails and teach attendees how to make these drinks at home. DJ Hermigervill, a longtime heavyweight of the Icelandic music scene, will welcome guests with tunes curated by experts at Iceland Music. Guests must be 21 years old with a valid ID to attend. 5:00 PM at Wild Days. Click here for more information.
Saturday, March 9
Elemental Sound Bath withBlue Lagoon Iceland andIcelandic ProvisionsSkyr Bar: Join Icelandic energy healer Jósa Goodlife for an hour of inner peace and healing meditation. Sound Bath attendees will receive a complimentary Blue Lagoon Iceland yoga mat, an Icelandic Provisions beanie, an Icelandair blanket, Icelandic Glacial water, and a Blue Lagoon Iceland Skincare gift. After the Sound Bath, guests are invited to an Icelandic Provisions Skyr Bar. 11:00 AM at Mind Your Body Oasis. Click here for more information.
Iceland’s Crime Fiction Royalty: A Conversation with Ragnar Jónasson and Yrsa Sigurðardóttir: Join global bestselling Icelandic authors Ragnar Jónasson and Yrsa Sigurðardóttir, known as the Queen and King of Icelandic crime fiction, for a conversation about their recent novels, literature, and life in general. Ragnar Jónasson will discuss, “Reykjavík,” his recent crime novel co-authored with Icelandic Prime Minister Katrín Jakobsdóttir. Yrsa Sigurðardóttir will discuss, “The Legacy,” the first in her popular crime series that has won numerous literature awards. 1:00 PM at Eaton DC, Beverly Snow. Click here for more information.
Taste of Iceland Cooking Class: Chefs Haflidi Halldorsson and Bjarki Snær Thorsteinsson will present and teach how to prepare the main ingredients on the Taste of Iceland menu. Learn how to prepare and cook the wild Icelandic cod starter, the Icelandic Lamb main course, and naturally a delicious dessert of the Icelandic Provisions skyr. The group will then sit down and enjoy the fruits of their labor with the chefs. 2:00 PM at Brasserie Beck. Click here for more information.
Icelandia Presents: Geology with Helga: Join volcanologist Helga Kristin Torfadottir to learn about Iceland’s fascinating volcanology, including current geological activities in Iceland. Helga specializes in the evolution of magma and the structure of volcanoes and is actively studying Iceland’s most significant volcano, Öræfajökull. There will also be Icelandia VR demonstrations where participants will be virtually swept away to Iceland to see the country from a new perspective. 3:00 PM at Eaton DC, Beverly Snow. Click here for more information.
ReykjavikPresents: Iceland Airwaves Off-Venue:The City of Reykjavík, in collaboration with Iceland Airwaves and Iceland Music, will host a free concert featuring Icelandic artists, singer-songwriter Axel Flóvent, multi-instrumentalist JFDR, and punk trio GRÓA. DJ Hermigervill, a longtime heavyweight of the Icelandic music scene, will host the evening. Doors open at 7:00 PM at Songbyrd. Click here for more information.
Dating Expert Andrea McGinty makes it easy with 33000Dates.com
Today we’re going to get to the source of what those date’s are actually about. So with us is a dating expert, Andrea McGinty from 33000dates.com.
Joe Winger:
So just to start things off, what inspired you to become a dating coach?
Andrea McGinty:
You mean what inspired an accounting / finance major to become a dating coach?
I started this when I was in my 20s. So this is the 1990s.
There’s no Google yet. There’s no online dating. It’s going to happen in the late 90s, but it hasn’t happened yet. At that point I was living in Chicago and I was getting married and five weeks before the wedding, he called it off and it was like – boom!
What do you do? First I cried, of course…
Anyway my friends started fixing me up on dates, still in your 20sand you know how those dates go,
They know someone that’s single, so they think you should like them, blah, blah, blah…
After some of those dates I was really thinking about it and I thought, it’d be great if there was a place you could go, like an executive recruiter for your professional life.
The same thing for your personal life.
And of course, there was nothing like that at the time. Even in high school and in college I fixed up two of my suitemates. They’re still with their husbands that I fixed them up with.
I was already good at this and I thought I could start this.
Anyway, fast forward.
I started a company in Chicago called It’s Just Lunch. Where people meet for lunch. We do all the work.
Fast forward, 15 years later, it’s still the same.
[At my first dating company, It’s Just Lunch] we had 110 locations globally and then I sold. Timing was perfect because online dating was coming out of its infancy and it was a mess it at first, just the scammers, the crazies, the horrible stories,
I thought, “Oh, wow, there’s a need. People have no idea what to do online and how to date.”
Dating Expert Andrea McGinty makes it easy with 33000Dates.com
Joe Winger:
Is there one big lesson to learn how to be more successful with dating in today’s world?
Andrea McGinty:
I think there’s a couple, there’s probably two lessons to learn.
#1 is you need to understand how to navigate online dating because there’s over 1400 sites out there.
#2 you’ve got to be really careful that you don’t give up too quickly.
Most people give up in the first 2-3 weeks because they go online, see a bunch of people, they probably went on the wrong site by the way too, like not the right site for them at all. Then they see these people who like them and they’re like, “Oh my gosh, this is online dating, forget it, I’m done, gone.”
And it goes back to they didn’t do it right, they had no idea what they were doing.
Joe Winger:
Can you bring some clarity to that and help somebody understand what are the first few steps are and how to do them correctly?
Andrea McGinty:
Absolutely. With online dating you need…
#1 you need to be really careful that you’re choosing the right site.
When we’re talking about 1,400 sites out there, I tend to work with the top 25 sites. When I’m working with a client I start initially with a zoom call with a client and get to know them what they’re looking for.
I work primarily with the 40 – something 50- something, through the 60s age group. Second time around, second acts in life type of thing.
Back to the right site…
When I’m choosing a site for a client after the zoom call, I’m thinking about. “Okay, what sites do I think they belong at?” And it’s very different if you’re in Los Angeles versus Houston versus Washington versus New York City or Orlando, Florida.
[The sites are] so different, how the sites function and the type of people that are even on the site.
I’m strategic too. I use three different large companies for research. I use Gallup, Pew and Statista. I pay to get research on a monthly basis and it really tells me the percentage of men to women on a site.
Some sites that are 80% men. Some sites are 80% women
You might be having an awful time on a site because you’re a woman and you’re at a site that’s 80% women. You’re in the wrong place.
So I do the homework with the research. Geographically where you live, level of education, income. Is that site’s membership increasing, decreasing?
#2 Your pictures.
Oh my gosh. I’m like a crazy person with photos because you have to have really great photos. I don’t mean LinkedIn photos, I don’t mean glamour shots, and not selfies.
The candids are nice because it’ll show you and your friends. Out playing pickleball, out playing tennis, out having drinks with your girlfriends. The professional shots. Depending on where you live, you’re just gonna get some great shots up against a graffiti wall in Brooklyn or a nice shot by the beach that are just a little more.
You want a couple full body shots.
You want the photos to be current, within the last year. Just like you don’t want to be surprised when you show up on the date and there she is. She has a few more wrinkles and a few more pounds than what I saw online.
It’s like you’re not being truthful about the whole thing.
Online dating is a visual medium. You’ve got to be presenting yourself. My LA and Orange County market, Dallas market, they get that. But there’s other parts of the country. I’m like no, we are not putting that picture of you online. There is absolutely no way.
#3 Your profile
Once they look at your photos online, if they like what they’re seeing, they’re going to read about you. It can’t be the same old stuff. Like I like to walk on the beach and I look as good in a tux as I do…. it puts me to sleep.
So a short, sweet, interesting, quirky profile sells.
A lot of times it’s hard to write about yourself. That’s why it’s nice to have somebody like me, write about you.
[Summarizing] You’re on the right site. The right photos. Your profile. Now it’s looking through high potential dates for you….
#4 Looking for High Potential Dates
Putting in algorithms, putting in search filters. That’s something I teach people how to do because otherwise it’s like you’re looking for a needle in a haystack and you want it like a needle in a little Easter basket.
Once we throw those filters and algorithms on, it gets rid of 80% of the people. Now we’re down to some of these people that look like high potential people for you.
#5 Send messages
We found 10 “someone” ‘s and now we send messages.
We don’t send them a weak heart or any of that kind of junk because men get so irritated. Because half my clients are men, they get so irritated with this.
Why are these women sending likes and hearts and no message?
That’s my constant battle with women.
Hey, you’re in your 40s, you’re not 90 when women had to wait to be pursued. We’re not living in our grandparents era, right? We’re equals. We can reach out to the men too.
The men totally appreciate when a woman sends a well crafted, interesting, short three sentence message.
The messaging is super important because you don’t want the: “Hi, how are you?” – or this is horrible. “Hi, you’re so good looking.” “Hi, you’re so beautiful.”
It was like, copy paste, they threw that out to the world, they sent that to everybody.
So now you’ve sent a message, hopefully he / she messages back.
#6 Schedule a date
The next thing is let’s get that date scheduled. This can all be done with just a couple texts on both people’s part:
“Okay, yeah, I’m totally interested. How’s Friday, at 5:30p at Bistro 110. Let’s meet for a glass of wine?
Because chemistry only takes place in real life.
Joe Winger:
In reality, do most dates get set up that quickly? It seems like there’s more delays and game-playing?
Andrea McGinty:
From the time you first send a message to someone, if the date has not been scheduled within five days of that initial text. There’s a 90% chance the date will never occur.
I’ll say to my client, “We’re going to go right for it right now.”
Write a couple of cute lines that are just for that person and then be like:
“You know what? I don’t really need to text you anymore or talk to you anymore because I’m ready to meet you. I’m super interested. How’s Friday night…?”
Sometimes you’ll get back a reply, what’s the rush?
I think to myself, what isn’t the rush here?
What do you want to talk about? Can’t you just get dressed?
We both live in Beverly Hills for goodness sakes. How long would it take us to get together and meet, right? We’re both in New York City. C’mon. Let’s do this in person.
If you’re getting those people that are drawing out the process, you either just cut bait. Just block them, goodbye, gone.
Or you say, you know what, if you don’t reply, you’re going to end up on my waiting list.
And you do it with a little humor, add an “LOL”
That can work too, where people crack up and they’re like, yes, I would love to meet you Saturday. Let’s grab lunch.
Joe Winger:
In today’s world of different levels of politically correct, cancel culture, different levels of sensitivity, regardless of whether you’re in a very conservative culture, progressive culture, etc.
How do we deal with any level of uncomfort when it comes to online dating?
Andrea McGinty:
First of all, you’re not in the workplace dating right now. Cause that’s where a lot of that happens, right?
This is where I say “Women, you’ve got a big advantage right now because you can feel very comfortable and free reaching out to men and get over that whole thing”.
Women wait to be pursued. There was this book that came out in the 90s: “The Rules.”
Wait to be pursued by the man and then don’t respond to him for three days. What the heck is that about?
No. Reach out to men.
Now for men, you’re not going to send stupid messages like, “Oh, you’re so gorgeous and sexy and blah, blah, blah”
Nobody wants that message.
You would find that offensive too.
As far as men reaching out to women, just do it in good taste.
Women are there to meet men. Creepy doesn’t happen very much online anymore. We’re out of that 2000 – 2010 era where more of that stuff happened.
There’s so many more hoops. Both parties jump through [hoops] on top notch dating sites now and dating apps now that verify that you are who you say you are and verify some information about you.
Joe Winger:
Most of the people watching this, they’re into food. That means fine dining. They’re into wine and cocktails and collecting wine.
What kind of a goal can they look for if they come to 33000Dates.com?
When they approach and connect with you, what should they be thinking about and preparing so they know how to best represent themselves in that first conversation with you?
Andrea McGinty:
Just be real with me and, people that are foodies and wine collectors, there’s a lot of us out there. There’s a lot of people out there that will find that very attractive.
There’s a lot of people that like to try different wine bars, they like to go up to Napa. Maybe that’s your third or fourth or eighth date,
Be real with what your interests are and… talking about food.
This goes back to when I’m writing your profile, when people just say, “Oh, I like Italian food.” I’m like no. Give me something here.
“I like carbonara with peppers and from Trattoria is amazing.”
It doesn’t have to be written in a snobby or snooty way, but it’s just like fun. Like you’re describing what you like to eat or your favorite foods or it could be talking about, you like this vintage of wine.
Be very specific with me because that’s how I can help you the most and be really upfront no, no PC woke stuff with me because this is your personal life.
Joe Winger
What are some realistic goals for your online dating experience?
Andrea McGinty:
We’ve got to make sure that we’re not listening to all the noise out there. We’re not listening to our negative friends about dating and friends and family can be two really negative forces because you get one of one of two things.
If it’s family, maybe a lot of them are married and they’re like, Oh, you’re good looking. You’re so awesome. You don’t need to do online dating. That is like for losers.
That is so not the story anymore.
You’ve got friends that are like, “Oh, I just tried Bumble. It was horrible”. “I did hinge. It was horrible.”
A lot of dating is going in with a good attitude. I’m not talking about rainbows and unicorns; and everything’s perfect or anything like that.
We spend a lot of our 20s and 30s becoming successful and working on our careers.
By the time we’re 40s, even 50s we’re there career-wise. So now, it’s time to focus on our love life.
That could be two very different pictures: it could be a second act because you’re divorced.
Or it could be you’ve been single and just all your efforts have been going into career and friends and travel and all this other stuff, good stuff you’ve got going on.
But you wake up one day and you’re like:
“Hey, I’m 45 and I’m single. What’s up with this?”
Go into online dating, approaching it the way you did your career. Strategically. It’s no fun to think about your love life, like strategically, hire somebody, think about how you play golf.
You didn’t just go out on the golf course. You took a bunch of lessons.
Everybody’s playing pickleball now. But you didn’t just go out on the court, even if you played tennis before. You took a couple clinics, right?
That very quickly threw you into the intermediate range all of a sudden because you put some effort into it.
Same with dating.
But if you want to do it effectively and pretty effortlessly, just like you did with golf, hire the pro to do this stuff for you.
My typical male client tells me I take 80% of the workload off him because he doesn’t have to think about it anymore.
I’m coming up and presenting ideas to him, presenting women to him and just getting them through. All of the hoops and the messaging and all that stuff. Getting them to the good dates because they’re out there.
There’s some markets, like Los Angeles and New York, that can be big complainers about dating. I think because they’re trying to do it on their own.
When I get online and go on the good sites in those two markets, there are so many good people on there.
It’s just a matter of having somebody doing a good portion of the work and pushing you.
And oh, here’s the other thing, accountability.
When you’re working with me, you have accountability because you’re going to talk to me next week. And I’m going to say:
“Okay, Tell me what happened to you last week.”
“How’d that date go?”
“Did you call back that other one that we talked about?“
I did text her after the date you said you were going to, what happened?
So that little push along the way and keeping you on track too.
Because we’re in a culture where, we’re educated, we’re taking great trips, we’re dining out. We’ve got a nice group of friends that we love to hang out with.
It can be really easy to sweep this all, to the wayside. There’s no reason because there’s a loneliness epidemic in the U.S. and we all know if you’re with somebody, that you really enjoy hanging out with you’re going to live longer and you’re gonna live happier too.
Right.
Joe Winger:
You’re offering great dating tips. Thank you.
Let’s say you’re someone who’s done the work on your profile, messaged all those people, asked for a date, and they’ve all disappeared.
What’s that person doing wrong?
Andrea McGinty:
You kinda gotta take responsibility for it. You’re doing something wrong.
Here’s the deal. You don’t know what you’re doing wrong.
But that’s stuff I can fix.
That’s another thing. You have to stay away from those free sites or sites that have free people on it because there’s no skin in the game there. They’re just dilly-dallying around, playing around on there and not really serious.
Part of it is recognizing the statistics that you’re going into up-front that for every 5 texts you send, 1 person is going to respond back.
I give my clients homework on a weekly basis, two sessions. That’s all I ask of them.
During those two 30 hour sessions they have to send out 8 messages. So I know by the time I’ve talked to them, they’re going to at least have gotten back 3 responses.
If their photos are really good, they might have 8 responses back.
If they haven’t already booked the date, craft the email, craft the text, craft the message that’s going to get that date in person. And get us there. Get us there.
Joe Winger:
Andrea McGinty from 33000Dates.com dating expert.
Any requests from the audience watching and listening?
Andrea McGinty:
I would just say, take a look around my site, maybe take the dating quiz that I have on the site. It’s fun. And it’s really fast. It’s 10 questions, and it goes right to me. It doesn’t go to any of my people. And. I can rate you and what you’re doing and tell you whether or not I can help you too.
So if you do take that quiz, give me as much info as you can. I don’t mean personal info, but like where you live, your age, but that’s all going to be on there. But take that quiz because that’s a good way to contact me and see if we might be a good fit and maybe I can help you if you really want to meet somebody.
